“Why God Started With a Family”
by Princess Francisca Obi-Chimezie
Founder, Family Nest Academy
Before churches, governments, or even nations existed, there was something fundamental: a family. And that wasn’t just a coincidence; it was part of a Divine Design.
🌱 Let’s Journey Back to the Start…
Imagine a world without noise, traffic, towering buildings, or the sound of school bells. Just pure, untouched Eden; full of raw potential.
In that vast expanse of creation, God had endless possibilities.
He could have created an army.
He could have constructed a grand cathedral.
He could have established a government.
But instead, He chose to create a man and a woman and called them family.
Not clergy.
Not politicians.
Not celebrities.
But family.
Because in God’s eyes, the bedrock of every future is a home.
🕊️ Heaven’s Blueprint Is Clear; It’s a Model for Us.
In Genesis 1:28, God blessed them and said,
“Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it…”
This wasn’t just a directive for having children; it was a call to build a world.
A kingdom mission.
A divine invitation to multiply not just in numbers, but across generations, spiritually, emotionally, and culturally.
• Multiply identity
• Multiply values
• Multiply covenant
• Multiply legacy
And within that first couple, nations were already waiting to emerge.
Abraham’s legacy? Found in his commitment to lead his family.
Timothy’s faith? Rooted in the love of his grandmother and mother (2 Timothy 1:5).
Even Jesus? Born into a family, raised by earthly parents.
Family has always been God’s chosen way to advance His Kingdom.
💔 So, Why Is the Family Facing So Many Challenges Today?
Because the enemy knows something that many believers overlook:
When you fracture the family, you fracture the nation.
You disrupt identity.
You twist purpose.
You halt the flow of generations.
That’s why we witness:
• Sons growing up without fathers
• Daughters learning about love through heartache
• Parents distracted, homes torn apart
• Marriages ending before they truly begin
And all the while, culture whispers: “It’s okay. Just focus on yourself.”
But deep down, we all know… it’s not okay.
🔥 But There’s Good News: Divine Design Can Be Restored.
If the enemy has a blueprint for destruction, then God surely has one for restoration.
Here’s how we can reclaim the Divine Design in our homes:
📌 1. Rebuild with Vision.
Without vision, families tend to drift apart.
So, create one.
Write it down.
Speak it over your children every single day.
“In this house, we build a legacy. We walk in honor. We choose truth.”
📌 2. Restore the Altar.
Every strong family has a secret weapon: PRAYER.
Rebuild the altar in your home, no matter how messy it may be or how tired you feel.
Just take that first step.
A few minutes each day can change the course of generations.
📌 3. Remember Who You Are.
Your family isn’t just a random collection of people.
Your last name carries weight.
You are a branch of God’s prophetic tree.
He chose your family to reveal something special to the world.
Yes, yours—flaws, imperfections, and all.
You’re still part of His plan.
Still part of His design.
💬 Let Me Share a Personal Moment…
A few years back, I found myself sitting in silence at our family dining table, feeling overwhelmed.
Ministry and career were heavily demanding , the kids require alit of patience and time I barely have , and my heart felt heavy.
Then, the Lord whispered to me:
“You’re not just raising kids. You’re planting nations. Treat them as such.”
That simple statement grounded me.
I stopped waiting for the perfect moment and began parenting with purpose.
We created a Family Vision Board.
We started having weekly family devotion nights.
We made purpose our culture.
And slowly… things began to change.
We are not yet there, we are still starting but we have chosen to continue in this journey.
The noise reduced. The fruit began to show.
We were aligning with the Divine Design.
✨ You Can Start Today.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You just need to be present and obedient.
Here’s the text we’re diving into: 📖 Scriptures to Declare Over Your Home: • Genesis 18:19 –
“For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household…” • Psalm 127:1 – “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” • Joshua 24:15 – “But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”
❤️ Final Thought: Family isn’t just a concept, it’s a divine creation. So, even when things get shaky, keep in mind that the blueprint is heavenly. And anything crafted by God’s hands is beyond the reach of destruction.
💌 Let’s keep the conversation going! Share your thoughts below or tag us @FamilyNestAcademy #FamilyIsSeed #DivineDesign #FamilyNestTribe
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