Now this… this is sacred ground.
As we continue celebrating the family week with the Theme ”YOUR FAMILY IS A SEED OF NATION”, we continue touch one of the major area that subtly and gradually breaks the family system; The use of *“word” wrongly.
Let’s go👇
Talking nicely to your wife isn’t just about being polite , it’s about respect, commitment, and the legacy you’re building together.
When a man speaks kindly to his wife, he’s not just uplifting her , he’s nurturing his home, his children, and his future.
Why Should You Talk Nicely to Your Wife?
Let me share a real-life story:
A woman once shared, “The first time I heard ‘You’re beautiful’ after we got married… it wasn’t from my husband, it was from a stranger.”
She wasn’t angry.
She felt numb.
Over time, the silence had become louder than any harsh words.
She began to doubt her worth, her appearance, and even her place in the family.
Meanwhile, her husband was left wondering, “What’s changed?”
But my friend… it wasn’t change.
It was neglect.
And neglect doesn’t always shout . Sometimes, it just goes quiet.
Why Must You Speak Kindly to Her?
🍀• Your words are her shield
Just as Christ nurtures the church with His Word (Ephesians 5:26), your voice should uplift her spirit, not tear it down.
🍀• Your words reflect her worth
What you say about her shapes how she sees herself.
🍀• Your tone influences your children
Your sons will mimic it. Your daughters will come to expect it.
🍀• Your speech creates the atmosphere of your home
Are your words spreading peace or sowing discord?
🍀• Your kindness nurtures her femininity
When you speak life into her, she thrives and when she thrives, the whole family benefits.
Scripture Insight:
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church…”
Ephesians 5:25
How did Christ love the Church?
• Sacrificially
• Patiently
• Through His WORDS
Cultural Wake-Up Call:
In many cultures, once the bride price is settled, the affection often fades.
🐚Men stop expressing gratitude.
🐚They overlook the little things.
🐚They cease to speak life.
But kingdom men strive for more.
Speak This to Your Wife Today:
🪷 • “I’m grateful for you.”
🪷• “You embody so much grace.”
🪷• “You still take my breath away.”
🪷• “God knew I needed you.”
🪷• “You’re more than enough.”
Your voice is a powerful tool. Use it to uplift, not to harm.
Go home today and speak life into your queen.
Let her hear from you the words that the world should never have the chance to say. Don’t just do it alone, get your children to speak unto her and uplift her spirit.
Happy International Family day!
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