Oh yes, sis ,let’s dive into the topic of our men. As we continue in our celebration of the international family week, with the theme “Family is a seed of Nation” remember that the family is incomplete without you and for our men, the family is headless, vulnerable and in danger without them!!!
Her Excellency Ma, I can confidently tell you that it is very easy to start forgetting the need to garnish our word with honour and respect as familiarity set in within the family. I am constantly in conflict within trying to hold myself from bursting out in verbally expressing myself as e dey hot 🔥the way I feel at that particular moment .
You are not alone dear woman!! Come close✍🏼 Let’s reason together 👇
Talking kindly to your husband isn’t just about boosting his ego; it’s about nurturing your influence.
Absolutely a woman’s words can either uplift or wound. They can build or tear down. They can foster respect or create resentment. And often, the weight in our homes doesn’t come from outside conflicts but from the harsh words exchanged within.
Why Should You Speak Kindly to Your Husband?
Let me set the scene for you:
He walks in the door exhausted, maybe a bit uncertain, perhaps carrying the weight of unspoken struggles from the day. But instead of a warm welcome, he’s greeted with:
🎯• “Why are you late again?”
🎯• “You never help with anything.”
🎯• “You call this leadership?”
No embrace. No kindness. Just criticism masquerading as conversation.
And gradually, he stops bringing his heart home. He only shows up physically.
But picture this instead…
You greet him with:
🌻• “Thank you for your efforts.”
🌻• “I know it’s tough , but I see you.”
🌻• “You’re doing better than you realize.”
That kind of tone? It heals. It honors. It lifts him up.
Why Speak Kindly to Your Husband?
🌷• Your words are like fuel
Sometimes, a man doesn’t need solutions, he just needs to hear: “You’ve got this. I believe in you.”
🌷• Respect resonates in your tone
While love may draw a man in, respect keeps him engaged.
🌷• Your voice is his sanctuary
If he can’t feel at ease around you, he’ll start to feel trapped in silence.
🌷• You influence how he views himself
He might hear many things from the world, but your voice is the loudest in his heart.
🌷• You set an example of honor for your children
Sons will learn how to communicate. Daughters will learn what to expect.
What does the Scripture Say:
“A wise woman builds her home…” Proverbs 14:1 Not just with meals or decor, but with her words.
“The tongue has the power of life and death…” Proverbs 18:21 So… what are you saying over your husband?
Cultural Wake-Up Call:
Some women think:
🌞• “If I speak softly, he might take me for granted.”
🌞• “He’s the man , he should be the strong one.”
But remember, kindness isn’t a sign of weakness.
It’s a form of wisdom.
It’s a strategy in the battle of life.
And it’s what the adversary truly fears, a wife who builds her home with her words.
So, Say This to Him Today:
💪• “I’m so proud of you.”
💪• “I admire the way you lead.”
💪• “You’re such a blessing to our home.”
💪• “God chose the perfect man for me.”
Remember 👇
🌹Speak with kindness. 🌹Speak with wisdom. 🌹Speak life into your home.
🌹You don’t lose strength by being gentle.
🌹You unleash a powerful influence over your household.
Dear woman, you have got this. Am cheering you up. 👏
Happy international Family Day.
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